Couples and Family Post-Diagnostic Support
Some people choose not to tell anyone that they are thinking about having an autism or ADHD assessment, or that they have (recently) received a diagnosis. However, it is more common for people to share this with at least one significant other, such as partners, parents or siblings. This can be for several reasons. For example, this can provide opportunities to talk through possible advantages or concerns about having an assessment, and reflect on strengths, preferences and any difficulties or needs from multiple perspectives. It can also mean a person is supported through the assessment journey by someone who knows them well, including after diagnosis.
Conversations with significant others are easy for some, but more challenging for others. It may be that not everyone in a relationship or family unit knows what the central traits and symptoms of autism and ADHD are, and how these can influence everyday activities and communication. Also, not everyone may agree that an autism or ADHD assessment will be beneficial, and opinions may differ about what difficulties a person has and how impactful these are. Receiving an autism or ADHD diagnosis may give rise to different emotions - one person in a relationship may feel relieved, whereas another may feel apprehensive. Similarly, thoughts about what a diagnosis means and what to do next can vary - one person may view this as life-changing information, whereas another may not.
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I was given a lot of information before the meeting and before we had even decided to go ahead with the assessment Debbie took a lot of time to talk to me in a very supportive way which put me at ease
You have both been incredibly kind and nothing has ever seemed too much trouble. The information, guidance and signposting to more sources of support will be invaluable.
It was a real pleasure to talk to people who really understood the complexity and subtlety of my son’s autism...it was great to see how you got beneath the surface to get the real story from him. You were kind, empathetic, encouraging and generous.
Very pleased that we were able to take advantage of their skills to assist [our son] in getting the diagnosis and help that he needs.
This was the best interaction I’ve ever had with professionals, they were super supportive and consistently made sure I was comfortable, and really took the time to understand me and my needs
Kindness, Compassion, Non-judgemental, Ethical, Collaborative